Celebrate your fifth wedding anniversary in style, for you have been together for half a decade now…
Anniversaries – a time for celebrations
Anniversaries are that time of the year when the entire family comes together to celebrate the togetherness of two soul mates, united in the holy bonds of matrimony. Marriage is not just the union of two people, but the union of two souls, of two hearts that care for each other and love each other unconditionally and have decided to spend the rest of their lives together, loving and living with each other. It is hard to find that one person, who is meant for you, with whom you feel just right – not excited, not empty, just right, as if this were how you were meant to be. They commit their lives to each other, promising to love, cherish, and look after each other, through health and illness, through sadness and joy, through the ups and downs of life, being there for each other always, as a guide, a companion, a friend, and to live for each other.
The power of love is undeniable. It doesn’t take too long for you to fall irrevocably in love with someone; it is the keeping of that love that requires an effort. You fall in love in a matter of seconds, sometimes even less; decide to spend the rest of your lives together, and get married. Up to this point, there is nothing herculean about what you have done. But it is after marriage, that the real work starts. You need to understand and appreciate each other to make the marriage work. You have to learn to accommodate each other’s wishes, make sacrifices, and put the other’s interest before yours.
Love, trust and patience – making a marriage work
It is not as easily done as said. Every time that you have to give in, the thought of seeking an alternative will cross your mind for sure. But it is the love you have for your partner that brings your ego down, making you smile and give in, knowing that you are not losing anything, but are rather strengthening your bond. There are many such moments in our life, when all that we really want is to have our way, but all we do is conceding, ever wondered why you never feel sad for it? It is because we derive joy from the joy of our loved ones.
In our life, we look for ways to keep people around us happy; as it is from them that we derive our happiness. Only when those around us are happy, can we feel the true joy of our happiness. There are days when we feel blue, and the only thing that can make us smile is our partner. One smile from them, a simple “it’ll be alright”; it can turn our frown upside down. However bad our day, all our worries are washed away by a single smile on our loved one’s face. It has a miraculous effect, lighting up our soul from the inside, taking away all the pain and worry we had just a moment earlier.
One life, one love – make it count
Now that you have reached this milestone in your life, you have enjoyed five beautiful years together, it is high time to show the world that your love has stood the test of time. You have enjoyed each other’s company for half a decade, and are living proof to the fact that love transcends time. Not to be ignored, this is an occasion that calls for a good celebration. Take this opportunity to shower all your love on your significant other, to make them feel loved, and treasure them. After all, you don’t get to celebrate your fifth anniversary more than once!! Go on all out and get them a lovely gift, take them out for dinner, or better yet, throw a party.
Get your friends and family together, arrange for a family reunion, or if you were sweethearts in college or school, organize a school or college reunion in the honor of your partner. It will bring back memories of the time before marriage, reminding you of all the sweet nothings that meant so much, all the small things that your significant other does, all the happiness and joys you shared. This makes for the best present by far, as it strengthens your relationship from the inside, bringing back the good old days and renewing your love for each other. If you are running on a budget, and cannot afford anything glamorous, don’t worry, as something simple will do too.
Celebrating half a decade of togetherness and joy
Looking for ideas for your 5 year anniversary gift? Then this article is definitely for you. Before you run to the nearest shop, in search of the best gift, let us tell you about a few traditions that are to be followed while giving anniversary gifts.
Your fifth anniversary is truly a reason to celebrate…it’s a reason to paint the town red. It should not be too hard to get the right gifts, as after five years of marital bliss, you should be well aware of each other’s tastes, likes and dislikes. So, all you need to do is modify the traditional gifts to suit each other. The custom is to give gifts made of wood or silverware to mark the fifth anniversary of one’s wedding, the corresponding stones being Sapphire and Pink Tourmaline. The associated colors are blue, pink and turquoise. The right flower for this year is Daisy, which represents loyal love, innocence and purity.
On this auspicious day, pick out a splendid gift made of wood or silver. It could have Sapphire or Pink Tourmaline stones embedded in it, to complete the design, or highlight the centerpiece. To this, you can add a bunch of beautiful Daisies, with a personal not or card, that expresses your feelings of love and warmth. It is sure to make your spouse’s day.
Some unique ways to spruce up the celebrations.
If you are at a loss, wondering what would make a good gift for the occasion, here are some splendid ideas for you.
Wood, the material for this year, is a very versatile material, allowing you to tailor it to suit your desires. You can make many things to give your sweetheart, like wooden furniture, jewelry boxes, etc. Wooden picture frames, artworks and sculptures are also good options. Hand carved mirrors, plant decorations, mini sculptures are all gifts that you can easily make by yourself and gift your loved one. They are a good way to put your talent to use, and also to showcase your undying love for them. It will remain to be something that both of you can show off, a happy memory carved in wood, preserved in time.
But all the same, if you are not so good at handling tools, you can go for something hassle-free, like adopting or planting a tree in the memory of the beautiful day. You can pick up some gardening gifts for the green thumb in your partner. Another trendy option is gifting them some wooden jewelry, something that can be worn casually, to parties and events. You can also buy them a collection of carved Love spoons from Wales, or donate to a charity that works towards forest preservation. Alternatively, you can gift them a subscription of their magazine or book.
You can even buy a wooden bookcase, or stand for your better half, in which she/he can keep their collection of favorite books. Wooden jewelry boxes are also a good option, as they can be used to preserve precious memories along with the jewelry. The boxes could be engraved with your names, intertwined in a delicate pattern, symbolizing your union. Or, if you are thinking of using your carpentry skills on a small scale, you can settle for a simple key chain or pendant or even bangle, made by you with love.
Another modern option in gifting is silver articles. Candle-holders are a stylish option for elegant gifting. They could be intricately carved or exquisitely detailed. Another popular option is the Laughing Buddha idol. This idol is believed to bring good luck and prosperity. Silver beads are also an exciting gifting option. You can have them strung together to form necklaces, bracelets, anklets, chokers, and other such items that can be worn as accessories.
If it is silver you are looking to gift, silver serving dishes are a splendid option. They add a charm to your cutlery, and are sure to light up her face. You can also get her some decorative kitchenware in silver. It could be anything, Silverware, spoons, cutlery, plates, anything. It could even be some gorgeous flatware. It could be something to be used on a daily basis, or could be something to be brought out only for special occasions. You could go for highly polished silverware like plaques with both your names inscribed on it, or figurines to be kept in the showcase. They serve well as happy souvenirs of the wonderful time you spent together.
Keep your eyes and ears open for hints
Most often, we know what we can gift, what will be appropriate and how to gift it too, but are stumped by the little details, such as the type of item to present, etc. To resolve such matters, it is enough if we follow certain simple measures. It helps to keep your eyes and ears open. Look out for hints that she/he drops, like her favorite color, something she’d wanted to do or have since a long time; somewhere she’d been often to, to look at something she desires, and such things.
Take note of the kind of dresses she wears the most, the color that she prefers, and the materials she is not comfortable with. These things are good indicators of her taste, style and preferences.
Notice the kind of jewelry she prefers – gold or silver, precious or semi-precious, studs or danglers, bracelets or bangles, brooches or pins, etc. these clues will come in handy during the actual selection of items. You will be able to choose between the sub-categories of the item more easily, saving you quite a good amount of trouble.
Once you are confident about her style, taste and preferences, you can be more adventurous in gifting. Some of the major bloopers occur in the size, color and quantity of the product. Do not buy something she already has, and do not go by the impression that she will wear a dress even if it is not her size.
If it is not material gifts that you want to give, consider giving them something extra special. Take some time out that day, go out for a concert or movie together, take them to places that have special significance to both of you, like where you met, or where you proposed, etc. If you can afford it, take her on a second honeymoon to celebrate the grand success of your love.
It is the heart behind the gift that matters, not so much the gift itself
Sometimes, it so happens that your significant other may have a high taste, with lavish preferences, and at the moment, you may not be able to provide for all that they want and desire. It may be very upsetting to know that what your partner really wants is something you cannot afford. It is at times like this that you should remember that the effort behind the gift is what really makes it special. Put all your love into your gift and it will show her that you cherish her more than everything.
Even if your gift is something common, of daily use, or a cheaper rate, don’t worry, give it to her with all your love, and she will treasure it with her life. It is not important that you give your partner the costliest, most glamorous or expensive gift, but rather it matters that you give it to them with all your heart and soul. Then, the purpose of the gift is well served, and the act acquires meaning.
